I think alot of partners forget that you have to work on both sides of any relationship. Women are not always black and white-though a few are. I think she makes a good point that we as women hold the power-to heal and to destroy. I, like Behind The White Coat, need to be wooed. I need these tokens of appreciation and validation to know that I am wanted in a loving capacity in order for me to give myself in that way to have that kind of intimacy with another. It’s nice to be appreciated for all that I do as a woman and a mom.